Monday, November 24, 2008

Kari invites...

Bro! When are you going to do it?

It was Tamil, who sounded excited, eager and anxious. I heard her heart through her voice. One should be a very holy person in his/her previous life to see the behavior of excited Tamil ;-). Well, it is always good to see a kid wobbling around all the way when she learns to talk and walk, isn't it?.

The days are racing with each other, when are you going to do it? you are pushing things to the last minute and going to lose the race with the time.

It was Tamil again, who got fed up of asking the same question again and again (not even .1% of the times she spoke to her new friend over the phone ;-)). I had to appreciate NOKIA's QA team for making such a withstanding product. There were also rumours that due to the high revenue the Indian government got through the calls made by lovers, they are planning to launch a sub-ministry called "Love all" ministry ;-).

Dey, have you got the content ready? are you going to print it or not? Do whatever you want, I do not know what you are thinking. I am not going to say it again, then it is your wish.

She was furiously serious and seriously furious this time.

Well, all the emotions were pitched on me for one thing... wedding invitation. Recently we have fixed a boy for Tamil to be her life partner (whether the boy is in a fix or not, only the Oracle can answer ;-)). My Great Great Grandfather dictated that, only the bride's parents should print the wedding invitation. Now a days, people do not even remember their grand father's name, ha, their words? yeah, it is in the bin. Well, I am printing one to invite my friends for my sister's wedding, ahrrr.. my first kid's wedding. So, G.G.Grand pa, I am not breaking the custom ha? so bless us from heaven.

Why should I delay it? if I can get a nice concept to pour in the card. It takes time, a long time. Should I be usual or casual, sentimental or emotional, responsible or irresponsible; I told you right, it takes time. But, at last, One fine night, I got it.

The clock in my house was close to finish it's day's task; The sofa yielded it's physic to hold me; after lots of sentimentally usual drafts torn and binned, I started to tear my hair (believe me, I do not have much left;-)); closed my eyes to search for some light; tic tic tic, the clock kept me awake; it was at that right moment, I heard someone humming a hit song; very mild; very casual; not organized; like a freak trying to spoil the music; loud laughter; heard some footsteps; I tried to focus, my eyes were still closed; thig thig thig thig; I heard someone running; suddenly I felt the sofa was bulging next to me to hold someone; who was it; I opened my eyes slowly; Shreeeekkkkk!! my heart jumped out of the vessel; my eyes were opened to the boundaries; my blood was pumping hard; and it was hot; shivering and speechless I was; I do not remember us having a mirror next to me.

Yeah, I saw myself sitting next to me; crazy eh?; but, my clone was different (was wondering if he was a clone or a clown ;-)); relaxed; agile; enthusiastic; humming; in a jolly mood; just an opposite of me; the outlook and the behavior says it all; I was staring at him for a long time and he did not seem to care; wanted to scream, could not; did not know what to do; it took time for me to recognize that he is a jolly side of me; Yo, dude whatz the time? he asked; I looked at the clock, it was 12:40 am; when I turned to answer him, he was already using my laptop; I was still shivering and nervous; My eye lids became heavy; I glanced at the time again, it was 1:30 am; by the time I turned, my clone was not there; I looked for him everywhere; he was gone; I looked at the laptop, the cursor was blinking at the end of the following content in the Textpad,

2008 B.M.V.

Mom: Tamil, who do you like in our family? Dad, Me or Kari?
Tamil: Dad and Mom are my eyes, my brother is my heart.
Dad: How can you be without us after marriage?
Tamil: I hate to think about that, I will never get married, I will never leave you, mom or Kari.
Mom and Dad: (concerned).

2008 A.M.V.

Mom: Tamil, who do you like in our family? Dad, Me or Kari?
Tamil: (Singing duet with Vasanth... in her dreams).
Dad: Tamil, answer mom, she is waiting for your answer.
Tamil: ufff! I heard this 1000 times, ask something else Mom.
Dad: How can you be without us after marriage?
Tamil: Vasanth will take care of me, God! why the days are not moving faster?
Mom and Dad: (still concerned, now about Vasanth).

Well, I too am concerned about Vasanth, after all he is a huMAN race. When Vasanth visited the worry factor and asked me what to do? what to do?, I boosted his confidence by making him aware that my dear ones are around to save him. Only then he agreed for the life time deal on Dec. 5th 2008 at 6 am in Ponmani Marriage Hall, Coimbatore. So, friends, I know your wishes are always with us, but ensure your presence to at least introduce yourself to Vasanth so he feels comfortable to call you when he is in Tamil trouble.

Vasanth's well wisher,
Kari...

B.M.V. = Before Meeting Vasanth.
A.M.V. = After Meeting Vasanth.


Confused; angry; furious; happy; teased; let down; funny; why did I push Kari to get the invitation ready; It was Tamil who was having mixed feelings.



Bro, are you really going to print this in the invitation? She asked. Without a doubt I said (I just said it but...).

...but I cannot let my kid down at any cost, can I?, a week later, Tamil had a look at the invitation shown in the image, the first printed copy. When she finished reading it, her eyes were filled with tears of sentiments and joy.

So friends, please be there to make Vasanth comfortable by being on his side.

15 comments:

Anonymous said...

WOW,

Full of emotions, you have touched all the heartbeats where the brother can, I am able to see and imagine this conversation in front of my eyes. Something has touched to my heart and that can only your words like somebody is throwing flowers from the heaven.

After going through this invitation, I am sure everyone will know the bonding between Brother and Sister’s relationship.

You are too good…..

Unknown said...

Nothing I could say could match the beauty of your words amigo, it humbles my soul when I see the commitment and devotion you hold in your heart, in everything you do and to everyone you love.

But this comment is not really aimed to you, but to my dearest Tamil whom I had the pleasure to meet almost 3 years ago. Tamil, I want to you to know that I still have the peacock feathers you had in the household shrine. The ones you gave me as a keepsake the day I left. They remind me of that special time there, they remind me of you and your parents... and sometimes even your brother! ;)

And now that you are about to get married, I would like to send my best wishes to you both in the new life you are about to start. May you love and hold each other in the worst and best of times with trust, faith and belief.

Jose

king said...

Too good

I just dont have words!!! You two are just a wonderful bro n sis.
Tamil and Vasanth wish u a happy married life. And for those from Kari's family, you used to me as Napolean ;)

Arunprasath said...

The content was really touching to heart.

Nice Invitation I have ever seen, done by a brother, including me :P

My Heartiest congrats and wish to Tamil and Vasanth


I hope this kind of invitation will be printed by Tamil for his brother soon ... Did i created a rumour :P

Gopis said...

I know about you from childhood onwards.
I think you are more worried about in this function …… Kari.
Don’t worry about it. We all know, you are doing very well to handle this function successfully.
I never have seen this kind of invitation before. It does prove your creative mind, good. It’s a very different move……… (Really)
What I observed in this invitation, how u r attachment with Ur family & our sister.
Kari you prove the relationship of the brother & sister.
Tamil and Vasanth wish you a happy married life.
I hope you send this type of invitation sooooooon……… Kari(In yours mind)

erpmarketer said...

MY heartly wishes for the bride and groom. I pray almighty to get all the resources and happiness for the whole of their life.Once, wish them a Happy and prosperous Married life...... Khaja Moideen

Yogesh said...

Heartiest Congratulations to Tamil & Vasanth !!!

Wishing them a very very Happy Married Life ahead.....

---YG

Avi said...

hey Kari!!!

as soon as landed back home asked my mom where z the card frm Kari...
I was expecting it to b urs wedding bell!!!

my bro said,"It's there on the rack!! but smthg unusual, I didn't get even a word of it.."
I knew it has to b the different!

the first line made me in dilema...
"Tamil!... i thgt it was only one of the languages of the country",
but i guess i was wrong.

I agreed to my bro yes it is differnt approach for a invitation card to b, but thts the creative approach hu kari looks towards life.

I felt as if I was reading a wedding card of my own lil sister.

but the last line made me think twice..., "Mom and Dad: (still concerned, now about Vasanth)."
;)

I hope Vasanth takes care of Tamil well & may GOD bless the couple a colorful & bright life ahead together!!!

Unknown said...

¡¡Felicidades!!

All the best for the couple in this new adventure that Tamil and Vasanth are about to begin together!

Kari, thanks for sharing so deeply the feelings of love and care you keep in your heart, you touched mine.

You know you are next ;)

Gannabattula said...

Is it indeed a deep love inside a brother or writer? Just kidding.

yeah, Tamil, he tells all these words till you get married. Later he thinks only..................

My hearty wishes to Tamil and Vasanth and not for you.

Tamil and Vasanth, just run away after marriage to be away with this black tiger. :))

Anonymous said...

Convey my wihses to Tamil and Vasanth... Next is who? :)

Anonymous said...

Tamil, I wish you and Vasanth all the very best wishes for your future together. I hope it is filled with much fun, laughter and adventure.

Eduardo Manzanos said...

I must congratulate you.
Your family and you have reasons to celebrate all those feelings in Coimbatore.
My best wishes to the happpy couple.

¡Enhorabuena amigo!.

The Sober Poet said...

Heartiest Congratulations to Tamil and Vasanth ...
and looking forward to give the same wishes to you Kari..in near future...
Come join the vast and evergrowing brotherhood of married men!!U bet u wldn't think of being a bachelor ever!!!

Anonymous said...

Hi Dad,

It's ur child, who have shouted to print the invitation even for ur kid's marriage. I am sure that, there won't be any child and dad like us in this world(Shhhhhh.... Hey,Should not be anybody like us).Dad I know that your were so busy with official and personal. Eventhough you have printed ur kid's marriage invitation to push me away from you all, but I won't go. I will be always torturing(in all the ways) you all by being in your hearts. I know that your long term goals are becomming true including ur kid's marriage right? Did you light the lamp in front of the god dad?

Make sure that nobody is having eyes on our affection, love, closeness etc... and let me know if you know anybody, I will dig their eyes by my hand urrrrrrrrrrrrrr :)

Could you make my dream true dad? Because this is about you, so need your help. Dreammmmm................... Expecting my "Anni" Soon. I heart is tempting my mounth to pronounce da(dad).

with love,
Gundu...